Watersports: it can include a myriad of activities (Picture: Ella Byworth for Metro.co.uk) Contrary to popular belief, ‘watersports’ isn’t just about the art of peeing on someone. I say ‘art’ because I’m a girl and, therefore, cannot aim.
In fact, the term ‘watersports’ can mean a myriad of activities from the humble golden shower to various ways of imbibing one’s own – or other people’s – pee for pleasure., watersports isn’t weird. It’s all good, clean, healthy fun (although, beware of playing if you have an infection in the area). However, its taboo nature did make it a popular choice for clients who came to see me as a dominatrix. For some, just the thought was exciting enough, and very often we didn’t even need to get to the main event.
Some may think that’s a blessing, but those people probably haven’t tried holding in four litres of Evian for an hour. Advertisement But golden showers really are the tip of the yellow iceberg, so I took to the internet to find out what parts of watersports ur-ine to, and why.
Alice, webcammer, Colorado, US I have a customer who pays me to sit on cam, and just drink water until I can’t stand it any longer and need to pee myself. I have to wear knickers, which he can see the urine coming through, and I put towels under my butt, but that’s about it.
The weird thing is that, while I’ve never been one for watersports, the pressure on my bladder is kind of horny. So maybe he likes that feeling too? The best thing is I’m getting better at holding it, so he needs to pay more every time. J, London Halfway through shagging my girlfriend while we were both drunk, she suddenly just started pissing herself and I could feel the warm water on my dick. I got instantly hard again and have just loved it ever since. I love women to pee on me, but I also enjoy just lying back and pissing all over myself.
Kenny, Ohio, US I like to be dominated, and told to drink excessive amounts of water. My Mistress will then play with me, and throughout our sessions I have to hold it in and not be allowed to go to the toilet. The best feeling is when I just cannot wait and have to wet myself, and clean it up afterwards. Advertisement Jenny, New York, US The taboo.
As a slave it keeps me reminded that I am nothing more than a depository for my Master’s body fluids and that is most gratifying. Steve, Ontario, US I just started experimenting with freezing pee. I got so excited when women make me drink their golden nectar that I wanted to store it, so I now make it into icicles so I can lick them whenever. Ben, California, US This is probably so tame, but I get a bit of a kick just from the sound. I just love sneaking past the bathroom and listening to my girlfriend having a wee.
I think I’m a bit of a peeping Tom because I don’t want to do anything with it, maybe that will come later? Watersports isn’t confined to golden showers (Picture: Ella Byworth for Metro.co.uk) I love it when my girl pees into my mouth when I’m giving her oral.
It’s like my tongue is working her up so much, she just loses control and can’t bear to stop. Plus, the warm water gives a bit of extra lubrication. Carol, Massachusetts, US Not tried it, yet, but I’d love a man to urinate in me while we’re having sex. I fantasise about that feeling of being full, and the wetness as we continue to screw. The only problem is I think it would be hard to do while maintaining an erection.
But maybe one day. Advertisement Faye, Brighton I like the feeling of being humiliated and used by my Master. It’s also warm, and I love that it has come from him. Billy, Louisiana, US I was a completely in the closet at school.
I had nightmares about what would happen if people found out I was gay on a daily basis. One day I was having this kind of anxiety-ridden daydream about what would happen if the football team found out about me. Then, in the dream, they all got their dicks out and started urinating on me in the showers and it really turned me on – that feeling of being humiliated, and drenched in something so hot from these gorgeous jocks.
I’d definitely volunteer to be their urinal. Watersports can be something people in vanilla relationships enjoy (Picture: Ella Byworth for Metro.co.uk) So, watersports and pee play isn’t just something confined to BDSM, it turns out it can crop up in more vanilla relationships too. Sometimes it’s because of the warm, wet feeling. Others just enjoy being so intimate with a partner; they want to experience every little thing about them. There are also plenty of ways you can enjoy it without things getting messy.
Get in the shower, and go for it. After all, we all do it.
Several times a day.
There is a reason why most American voters are now familiar with the term ',' but I'll get to that in a minute. If you're still in the dark: No, it's not a shower chiseled out of a brick of gold (although that would be amazing). A golden shower, also called 'water sports,' is a sex act that involves urine. This can mean peeing on your partner, in front of your partner, near your partner, or having your partner pee on/near/in front of you. No hard and fast rules here, except that it definitely involves pee.
According to Samantha Manewitz, a sex therapist with the Institute for Sexual Education and Enlightenment who specializes in working with alt-sex and kink communities, there's often 'a component of dominance and submission in the act of peeing on a partner or having a partner pee on you.' But for others, golden showers are just a fetish that gets them aroused and they don't have any interest in the power exchange aspect of urinating in front of a partner. There's no way to really quantify how many people are interested in golden showers, but Manewitz said 'there are far more people who are interested in this sort of play than are willing to disclose it,' as is the case with any kink or fetish.
In her practice, she's found that people are into it for a variety of reasons. 'Watersports can foster trust and intimacy, there is vulnerability both in having a partner pee in your presence and allowing yourself to be peed on,' she said. 'There is also something about exchanging bodily fluids in general that can be hot for some. The fact that it is 'wrong' and 'dirty' can be a turn on in and of itself.' Getty Images Cosmopolitan How To:. Get consent!
You need this for any sex act, but 'are you interested in experimenting with water sports' is probably a conversation best had before the foreplay kicks off, not in the heat of the moment. What's hot to you might not be hot to your partner, because that's just how interests work. Make sure you're on the same page first, and then proceed. Make a plan and stick to the plan, and then be sure you're taking general cleanliness into account.
Is this something you want to try out in the shower? On the floor (IDK!)? Sticking to the set plan ensures all the conditions of consent are being met, and no one is surprised in a way they are utterly unprepared for. Be aware that urine, as the myth goes.
Even before pee hits the surface of your skin, where bacteria lives, it contains bacteria that shouldn't be consumed, and should be kept away from any open cuts or scrapes you might have. Don't FREAK out if some pee accidentally gets in your mouth — just also don't make a big habit out of drinking it. Getty Images Cosmpolitan Golden Shower in Popular Culture: Ten days before his Inauguration ceremony, a highly detailed, 35-page dossier was published in full by BuzzFeed that revealed surprising allegations about then-president elect Donald Trump — 'a number of prostitutes to perform a 'golden showers' (urination) show in front of him' at a hotel. Trump vehemently denied the claims made within the dossier, which was unverified when BuzzFeed published it. Nonetheless, golden showers was trending all over the internet for a few days.